Toys of life
I was reading about the concept of desire sometime ago. Everyone has desire at every stage in life. Some term it greed, which basically is excessive desire. Desire or 'want' starts at a very young age which would start with toys. I will explain the term 'toy' as a synonym of desire.
As a kid, why does he need a toy? To fulfill his dream of playing with it - showing it to friends and feel proud of owning it. Imagine, the friends did not like it or did not wish to play with it, then, that kid would not buy that toy. For example, it is rare for a kid to have an urge to buy a musical instrument or a home improvement set. He will have very few to show them to. There are two possibilities if he owns such things - either he is forced to own them or he really has a passion to own them. So, a toy, in a way is synonymous to desire. If you have it, you want to show it and take pride out of it.
When the kid reaches some age, he would want a bike(bicycle). Then, some sports gear. Some kids want video games, play stations, and various computer oriented games. Boys make sure that their friends keep them in good terms. They would not miss opportunities to display their new 'toys'. This is the second phase of desire. This phase ends with getting a car as present once the kid enters college.
What is the next toy? College is over. A nice job, and some gadgets to fill his home. Sure, he will get a nice job. Smooth sailing one with good money pushed into his pocket every month. With money pouring in, 'toys' change. He wants to sell his old college car and buy a new one. A good entertainment system at home is good! So, there he goes to buy a new home theatre. Few more things bought and the house is all set.
It does not end here. A nice house is yet to be owned. Sure. Few years of job and savings out of it will help him buy a house. Doesn't he want to buy a good house so that his friends and relatives visit and appreciate it? Surely! He does want it. Guests will be invited to visit his family and commend his achievement of owning a house. Couple more things to fit to his 'toys' list - stocks, shares and more savings in the bank.
Days change and new day rolls by, but the wishlist doesn't end. New things always keeps adding. Man doesn't understand that some power drives him to desire for more. Many times, he doesn't understand the need of 'toys' or desire, but just imagines that he wants it. One should always think before going for his next 'toy', "Have I become a toy in the hands of Him?"
As a kid, why does he need a toy? To fulfill his dream of playing with it - showing it to friends and feel proud of owning it. Imagine, the friends did not like it or did not wish to play with it, then, that kid would not buy that toy. For example, it is rare for a kid to have an urge to buy a musical instrument or a home improvement set. He will have very few to show them to. There are two possibilities if he owns such things - either he is forced to own them or he really has a passion to own them. So, a toy, in a way is synonymous to desire. If you have it, you want to show it and take pride out of it.
When the kid reaches some age, he would want a bike(bicycle). Then, some sports gear. Some kids want video games, play stations, and various computer oriented games. Boys make sure that their friends keep them in good terms. They would not miss opportunities to display their new 'toys'. This is the second phase of desire. This phase ends with getting a car as present once the kid enters college.
What is the next toy? College is over. A nice job, and some gadgets to fill his home. Sure, he will get a nice job. Smooth sailing one with good money pushed into his pocket every month. With money pouring in, 'toys' change. He wants to sell his old college car and buy a new one. A good entertainment system at home is good! So, there he goes to buy a new home theatre. Few more things bought and the house is all set.
It does not end here. A nice house is yet to be owned. Sure. Few years of job and savings out of it will help him buy a house. Doesn't he want to buy a good house so that his friends and relatives visit and appreciate it? Surely! He does want it. Guests will be invited to visit his family and commend his achievement of owning a house. Couple more things to fit to his 'toys' list - stocks, shares and more savings in the bank.
Days change and new day rolls by, but the wishlist doesn't end. New things always keeps adding. Man doesn't understand that some power drives him to desire for more. Many times, he doesn't understand the need of 'toys' or desire, but just imagines that he wants it. One should always think before going for his next 'toy', "Have I become a toy in the hands of Him?"
